At some point, the high school student athletes will have a conversation on the phone with a college coach. It will happen, trust me it will! Many high school athletes struggle with phone calls from a college coach and it’s only because they are kids. It’s no big deal for parents to get on the phone or make a phone call and/or carry on a conversation with a college coach. Most parents are aware of how important the recruiting process is to their child.
The phone call in the college recruiting process is one of the most important parts of recruiting so, how you sound on the phone could mean everything to your success. I’m sure the coach does not want to have a conversation with someone when all he or she can say is “yep” or “nope” or “I don’t know” all through the conversation.
Most experienced college coaches understand that they are talking with shy teenagers who are better at having a conversation with there peers. That’s why Facebook and Twitter are so popular; you can write your thoughts and get your point across better.
There is so much pressure these days on high school student athletes to perform in the classroom every day. They must have good grades, they must be great athletes, they must be great in their community and they must get to the next level, all of which is a lot of pressure. On top of all of this is the phone call from a college coach. Up until now, most of theses kids just had to deal with the day to day part of being an athlete without much outside intrusion.
The phone call is as much to recruiting as the official visit. At least on the visit you have your parents with you as a back-up but on the phone with a college coach, it’s just you and no one else to back you up or jump in when you get stuck on something.
What can you do to make having a conversation with a college coach an easy process?
Preparation: have a list of questions to ask when the phone rings and it’s a college coach on the other end waiting to talk with you. That way when the phone call does come in, you are ready and not all that nervous or slow with your answers. Another great idea is to have your list of questions by the phone, that way you are ready to go the moment the phone rings and it’s a coach.
In the beginning, the coach will be the one asking the questions so make sure you give good answers and not a bunch of one word answers that will make you look or sound bad. One-word answers are not good. I think the more you can add to the conversation with a coach, the greater it will be for you and will make you stand out over some other nervous kid whose going through the same thing.
Practice what you’re going to say to a college coach when they do call; use your parents or a teammate to play the role of the coach. Role-play the phone conversation and write out possible questions that may be asked by the coach. If you’re not sure what a coach may ask you, I would talk with your high school coach and get their feedback on this or better yet, talk with other student athletes who may be going through or have gone through the same process. They can be a good source of valuable information.
The reason the phone call is important is because the coach is going to ask you questions about your grades or your season and stats and there could be a question about who is recruiting you and always be honest in your answer, never lie to a college coach because there could be an offer made or the coach may ask you if you’d be interested in coming in for an unofficial visit or, maybe a little down the road, come for an official visit.
Keep in mind, not many student athletes will get a phone call from a college coach. This is a big step in determining your interest in that school’s program and if your answers to their questions seem slow and or you sound uninteresting to that coach they just may cut the conversation short and you may never hear from that program again.
Never close any doors to college programs because you never know how the recruiting process will end up for you. Many student athletes hoping for maybe bigger college programs to call, sometimes act distant on the phone. Never do that because nothing has been guaranteed to you in terms of a scholarship.
Keep the doors of the college recruiting process open. Student athletes you can make the call first to a college coach. I would bet that many high school student athletes do not realize that they can call a college coach. Yes, the high school student athletes who may have a list of college programs that you think you have a realistic chance of playing at, you can call the coach.
Don’t wait for them to call you. Calling a college coach shows that coach that you are serious about your athletic future, that you are a mature high school student athlete and also you can get right to the point with that coach by asking this question: “are you recruiting me?” or even better: “will you be recruiting at some point?” Use the phone to your advantage.
During most of their young athletic lives, it has been someone else’s job to pick for them. It’s been the high school coach’s job to tell the players what to do and more or less when to do it. So is it really any surprise that many high school athletes who are being recruited for the first time are not totally trained to handle the conversation even one that is as serious as dealing with their high school athletic futures.
These days, with the high cost of a college education and the value that is placed on an student athlete to win that scholarship, don’t you think more should be done in helping prepare the “golden ticket” we call athletes for that conversation? In most high schools they have many elective classes surely, they could have a class that covers the right or wrong way to deal with college recruiters.
Sports at some high schools is a big deal. The high school players are talked about in such a way that they are treated as celebrities; we want to know everything they do from how they played in the game to who’s recruiting them. Every aspect of their athletic lives is scrutinized in such a way that they are not real. Even though they are just kids, sometimes we look at high school athletes as something more.
We want them to go to a great college or maybe the college we attended, we want that school to win games, we want that player that we have followed for years to have big-time success in college and we care what happens to that player once his high school days are over.
The conversation with a college coach is the starting point that can lead to a scholarship at a major college program and to maybe a pro career, who knows.
Parents just want to be helpful but these are kids and sometimes you just have to let them keep that phone in their hands. Remember, it is just a conversation you are having with someone else over the phone. Just be cool and relax. It’s only your whole athletic future that’s riding on that phone call! (Just a joke there!) It’s all a conversation, that’s all!
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