The parents of high school athletes have a great deal of passion for their sons and daughters who are very talented student athletes.
I know the parents are the ones who speak up for their kids, spend money on their kids, and they do almost everything for their kids when it comes to sports and college recruiting.
Many of these parents, if you let them, will get on your last nerve by being aggravating, irritating and just plain stupid.
For a very long time I was a college recruiter and I spoke to hundreds of parents each and every year about the college recruiting process. Many of these parents were crazy and confused about how the college recruiting process should work for them, not about how the college recruiting process should work.
I can truly see why many college coaches do not want to have anything to do with parents.
Every parent that I’ve ever talked to about the college recruiting process always had some sort of complaint. These parents were complaining about how bad the high school coach was or how recruiting was going so terrible for their son or daughter, who they felt should be getting scholarship offers every single day.
When I try to offer solutions to these parents they did not want to hear anything I had to say.
If another parent was doing something different with the college recruiting process it sometimes pissed off other parents. If a particular situation was going differently from one parent to the next, then you just had total college recruiting confusion amongst these parents.
Now don’t get me wrong, there are a huge number of parents out there who are great and who totally understand the college recruiting process.
Many parents have taken the time to look into what the college recruiting process is all about.
These parents for me were always easy to work with because I could talk to them in a calm and intelligent manner and they would understand what I was saying without becoming angry or frustrated.
The college recruiting process, for all who are involved with it, really makes absolutely no sense but my best advice would be to start the process as early as possible just so you could have a fighting chance of gaining some type of advantage.
I understand what parents want because they have invested a lot of money and time into their kid’s athletic and educational futures. When these parents don’t see a return on that investment, then this is when they start to lose their minds and drive everyone crazy.